After 21 years of marriage all I can say is love is active.. It’s a verb. There are times that my relationship seemed very much out of focused. There were times the path wasn’t always clear. Then what was clear during those times. The core. The world will cloud your judgement. It isn’t always easy to see but you will always know the truth deep down inside of yourself. When you trust that things start to clear up. Draw a heart and think about love.